Couples, Partners, & Polycules

Couples, Partners, & Polycules

Relational therapy for two or more people supports your journey across the beautiful terrain of intimate connection. Whether you are seeking to repair after a rupture, renegotiate relationship agreements, or deepen your capacity for pleasure and vulnerability, we work together to build a partnership that feels resonant, safe, and honest for everyone involved.

 

Rather than fitting your relationship into a standard mold, we honor your unique dynamic. We might explore how each person’s attachment patterns and nervous system show up in conflict, map out implicit expectations around intimacy, or guide you through major relationship transitions — such as opening up, shifting to polyamory, adjusting to co-parenting, or navigating desire discrepancies. I welcome all genders, sexualities, and relationship configurations, offering a body-aware space where nonmonogamy, kink, and diverse relational structures are fully affirmed and understood.

 

To honor the complexity and depth of multi-person or intensive relational work, I offer 50-minute and 75-minute weekly therapy as well as advanced session options—including 90-minute meetings or higher-frequency sessions during times of active transition, crisis, or structural renegotiation.

 

Topics clients come to me with include:

 

  • ​Attachment & intimacy issues 
  • Communication around sexuality & desire
  • Fertility & family planning
  • Desire discrepancy 
  • Low or absent desire
  • Burnout
  • Pre-marital counseling
  • Moving in together
  • Sexual shame
  • Resolving painful sex
  • Arousal & orgasm difficulties
  • Ejaculation & erection concerns
  • Chronic illness & disability
  • Sexual anxiety & aversion
  • Sexual orientation 
  • Gender identity
  • Mixed-neurotype couples
  • Infidelity/ betrayal & rebuilding trust
  • Exploring nonmonogamy
  • Exploring BDSM
  • Relationship style changes 
  • Diverse sexual interests
  • Conscious uncoupling
  • Divorce & separation